As a seasoned wedding photographer, I’ve had the pleasure of witnessing a trend that’s captivating the wedding world—the first look. Allow me to dispel any misconceptions and assure you of this delightful addition of a first look on your wedding day. Couples who have had a first look on their wedding day have shared with me, time and again, that it doesn’t overshadow the breathtaking moment of seeing your partner at the altar. On the contrary, it amplifies the magic, creating an intimate moment that sets the stage for an unforgettable day.
The “first look” on a wedding day refers to a planned, private moment shared between the couple before the ceremony. It involves the couple seeing each other for the first time, typically in a location away from the eyes of the guests. This intimate encounter allows the couple to connect, exchange emotions, and revel in each other’s presence before the formalities of the wedding commence. It has become a popular trend in modern weddings as a way to create a special and meaningful experience. Usually your photographer and videographer will tag along to document that moment for you.
There’s many reasons couples are choosing to have a first look on their wedding day, and increasingly there have been variations on the first look. The first look on your wedding day can be between you and your partner, with a parent, with a close friend, with your wedding party, with siblings – and they each capture a different special memory.
- An Intimate Interlude
Imagine this: you and your partner steal away a few precious moments before the whirlwind of your wedding day commences. It’s an opportunity to bask in each other’s presence without any distractions. The first look allows you to revel in the excitement and connection, setting the tone for an extraordinary day. It’s a clandestine rendezvous that deepens your bond and adds an intimate touch to the overall experience. Believe me, these quiet moments will become cherished memories you’ll hold dear forever. Some couples opt to exchange intimate vows at this time for the first time as well. - A Soothing Balm for Nerves and Emotions
Let’s face it, weddings can be nerve-wracking! The first look acts as a tranquil haven where you and your partner find solace in each other’s arms. It’s like a gentle exhale, releasing any pre-ceremony jitters and anxieties. Seeing your beloved before the ceremony becomes a grounding force, a reminder of the unwavering support you both share. This shared experience helps calm the nerves and allows you to fully embrace the emotions of the day, making the ceremony even more meaningful and heartfelt. - Capturing the Essence of Authenticity
As a wedding photographer, my pursuit is to immortalize genuine emotions. The first look is a treasure trove for capturing those unfiltered, raw moments. The sheer joy, surprise, and excitement that illuminate your faces during this intimate encounter are simply priceless. Unlike the ceremony, which has certain constraints, the first look allows you to choose a location that holds significance for both of you. Whether it’s a picturesque garden or a spot that holds sentimental value, these photographs will be cherished reminders of the depth of your love. - Extending the Celebration and Reducing Stress
Now, here’s a fabulous bonus: by having a first look, you actually minimize stress and maximize the joy on your wedding day. How, you ask? Well, by sharing that special moment earlier, you create extra time after the ceremony to mingle with your loved ones and truly savor the festivities. Instead of rushing through quick hellos, you can engage in heartfelt conversations, create lasting memories, and simply relish in the celebration. It’s a recipe for a less chaotic and more joyful day, allowing you to savor every moment. The timeline benefit is a very real one, and in terms of the logistics of the day, when it’s going smoothly from a thoughtfully planned timeline, it’s a huge stress off of your shoulders. Other ways to reduce stress on a wedding day are outlined in this free guide I have curated.
There you have it—the magic of a first look. As a wedding photographer, I’ve personally witnessed how this choice adds a touch of elegance and intimacy to the day, without overshadowing the momentous “I do” at the altar. It creates a serene interlude, soothes nerves, captures genuine emotions, and even reduces stress. In this way, I would encourage you to embrace doing a first look —let it weave its spell and make your wedding day truly extraordinary.
